Between Meetings & Meals — Episode 016

Lately, I’ve been thinking about how many things in life can sit in the idea stage for way too long.

Projects.
Creative ideas.
Conversations.
Business moves.
Stuff we keep saying we’re going to do.

Not because we don’t care.
Not because we’re lazy.

Usually because we want it to be good.

We want to understand it better.
We want to feel more ready.
We want one more round of thinking before we start.

But every now and then, life reminds me that some things only make sense after you begin.

Sometimes you just have to press record.

The Pour

This week’s bottle was J. Lohr from Paso Robles.

One of the wine guys at H-E-B told me about it, and I’m glad he did.

I think it may have become our new favorite “cheap bottle.”

And I don’t mean cheap in a bad way. I mean that perfect kind of bottle that’s around $10–$12, tastes way better than it should for the price, and feels like something you’d expect to pay closer to $25 for.

Great flavor. Easy to drink. Smooth. Just a really solid bottle to have in rotation.

I’m still learning wine, so I’m not going to pretend I have the vocabulary to break down notes and structure and all that the way real wine people do.

I just know when a bottle makes you stop after the first sip and go, “okay… yeah, this is good.”

That was this one.

And honestly, I love finding bottles like that.

Not the big special occasion bottle.
Not the one you save forever.

The one that quietly becomes part of your life because it’s just that dependable.

The Table

A few weeks ago, my friend Carlos and I started a podcast called Explain This.

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And if I’m being honest, the hardest part wasn’t recording it.

It wasn’t the setup.
It wasn’t the gear.
It wasn’t the artwork.
It wasn’t the conversation.
It wasn’t even figuring out what we wanted the podcast to be.

The hardest part was just finally doing it.

We had already talked about it a bunch.
Thought about it enough.
Kicked around ideas.
Probably overworked the concept in our heads more than necessary.

At some point, the only thing left to do was stop talking about starting and actually start.

That lesson keeps showing up for me.

I can overthink with the best of them, especially when I care about something.

I want it to be good.
I want it to make sense.
I want it to feel intentional.
I want to know where it’s going.

But the truth is, a lot of things don’t tell you what they are until you begin.

That was the podcast.

The second we actually pressed record, it stopped being this abstract thing floating around in our heads and became real.

And once it became real, it got easier.

Not perfect. Just clearer.

Sometimes that’s all action does.

It doesn’t solve everything.

It just replaces fog with a little bit of direction.

The Edge

I’ve also been messing around with Suno, the AI music creator, and it’s one of those tools that makes you laugh the first time you use it because it feels kind of ridiculous that it works as well as it does.

You can hum a melody.
Type out some lyrics.
Describe the vibe or sound you want.

And then it makes a song.

A real track.

Not just a rough little idea.
Not just a beat.
Not just some weird unfinished experiment.

A song that honestly sounds kind of mind-blowing.

That’s the part that keeps sticking with me.

Not just that the technology is good, but that it lets you move from idea to output so fast.

You don’t have to be a musician.
You don’t need a studio.
You don’t need to know exactly what you’re doing.

You just have to be willing to play with it.

And that feels like such a big part of where things are headed right now.

The people getting the most out of this wave of tools aren’t always the people with the most technical knowledge.

A lot of the time, it’s just the people willing to try stuff.

The monthly subscription isn’t bad either for what it does.

It’s one of those tools where you use it once and immediately understand why people are paying for it.

The Lesson

I think that’s the thread running through this week for me.

The podcast.
The bottle.
The app.

All of it reminded me of the same thing:

You can only think your way so far into something.

Eventually, you have to do it.

Press record.
Buy the bottle.
Open the app.
Try the thing.

I need that reminder more than I’d like to admit.

Because sometimes what looks like preparation is really just hesitation in nicer clothes.

And sometimes the only way forward is to stop overthinking and make the first move.

Not everything needs more time.

Some things just need a start.